Hello Jon,
I feel your pain and frustration; I have been there. It is hard to take accusations, insults and other low blows when one is putting in lots of unpaid time and money to keep an organization/community going. Most times the kudos, expressions of support, pats on the back come only after the proverbial camel's back has been broken... Like others I failed to provide some moral support!
The forum you created and provided for was a huge community and a tremendous reference library from which I hugely benefitted during my one year of membership. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU. I hope that you find it possible to re-open the forum. If not warmest wishes to you for present and future endeavours.
Marcel