If still that small after 5 years in LA, I'd be scratching my head, too. Possible nematode or other soil problem? Since the parent tree is fine (and you could presumably air layer a replacement in no time), I would dig it up and inspect the roots for galls. If so, I might trash it. Otherwise, I'd pot it up with good soil for a season in a 15 gallon pot and fertilize it well and see if it takes off. Might be worth giving it a severe pruning to see if that might force some new growth.
Best of luck.