I had the same. I found that for me what works is not big tangled roots, but strong roots. So, if you have them, separate it now, pot it in deep, secure to a firm wall, or post, so that the plant does not wiggle and break the new roots. mulch it, and nest the container in a bunch of mulching, so it stays warm and will continue growing 'slowly. you will notice that the leaves in the airlayer will yellow and fall before the mother tree. protect the baby from wind draft and treat it as a tree. water when needed. I still have some out there and I am going to separate them all.