I hear you, sigh. I do love the weather here, but frankly, the main reason we moved back was to be with our family. My MIL, our last living parent, lives up in Newport Beach. I would consider moving out of the state at some time in the future, because the cost of living is becoming unbearable here, sadly. And, no need to feel embarrassed about having a lovely big spread. Virginia is beautiful, and so nice you have some "elbow room". Plus, bet your Aussies just love it! I tell the girls that we finally got our boys. They just roll their eyes.