Martin, I do the same thing, JD and I talked about this a while back on the forum I think. Like I just recommended to 71GTO in his post a minute ago - if you really want to understand how much water is too much, take two equal size containers and fill them with dry potting mix. Leave one dry, then wet the other completely. Life each container to feel the weight difference. If your pot ever feels halfway as heavy as the waterlogged pot, you're overwatering. It should feel - at most, I think - around 1/4 - 1/3 as heavy as the wet pot.
I also think it's a good exercise for people to mix the wet and dry soil together till it's fluffy and get a feel for it - your soil should never be wetter than the resulting product, and even then, it's on the verge of being too wet.
Oh - and I couldn't agree with you about society becoming too dumb or lazy ;) Technology is great and everything, but at some point you gotta scratch your head at the gimmicks out there that are supposedly saving us time. Besides ... the sun's rotation shifts.... so what you may pull from the meter one year could be drastically different two years later....