Hi louborges,
Why 4' from the ground ? IMO, that is too small 6' or 8' is better.
The potted tree, is she making brebas, maincrops, ot both ?
I would stop trimming the in ground tree. If you want to thin, then remove a branch. Don't cut all branches in half. Trimming is often used to make trees go bushy.
And I think that your tree is going bushy.
Other question: Does the in ground tree make figlets and they drop ? Does it nether show figlets ?
I have a tree that makes figlets and most (ok, all so far - but this year, 10 fruits are hanging on so far, not holding my breath for that, but holding the axe ) will drop, so if one doesn't keep an eye on her, one could think that she never fruits .
Well indeed, she never fruits because no fruit has ripened until now, but she starts the fruiting process at least.
Fruit drop might be caused by late cold spells, so your in ground has perhaps a problem with the weather - see the remark of Pino, and change for a more adapted cultivar for in ground growing at your location.