I am sorry to hear this. I have something in red plastic, and it's notched with a point at one end and a handle at the other. It's called a Soil Sleuth. You poke it into your containers, twist and pull up. The notches will tell you how wet the soil is, and will also provide aeration.
I don't use it very much now since not much is in containers, but I use it in ground just to see if the drippers are working. Drip irrigation is great, but sometimes there is a kink in the line, a leak, or some fault that makes one station not work. Today I checked on my Moringa trees...... hmmmmmmmm looking yellow and it's the heat they love. I watered by hand. Scott's Black is down there with them. JD is checking that station now, and there is another pot with a Hibiscus perfectly green yesterday, yellow leaves all over today.
Suzi