Ed,
Sorry to hear about your loss. My father passed away last year, 92 years 10 months, it was a good run.
Sounds like you have some challenges right now but some time goes by and you remember the good stuff.
Make sure you take the help offered by friends and family and take care of your own health.
Give everyone an update in a few months when things are more settled and I'm sure some of the rare figs can be replaced.
Good Luck
John Galvin