The "barely water" rule applies to cuttings and babies. And again, during harvest week--some figs split with too much watering. Once a plant has a suitable amount of roots and is actively growing with a decent amount of leafage, watering isn't a huge issue. Some cultivars prefer more or less water, but they'll let you know. Just try to make sure the pot drains well and doesn't stay soaked all the time or sit in standing water for so long that it rots. Once autumn comes, and trees go dormant ease off: without leaves and growth, the chance of overwatering is again an issue....that's if you are keeping everything in pots.
Big pots can be deceiving. It might be bone dry on the top 3 inches of depth, and a soggy mess down below. Might stick your finger in there to make sure.
Even well watered plants' leaves will wilt a little on scorching days. If by evening the leaves haven't begun to perk up, then you might test for watering. All that said, an actively growing tree with good root growth can stand a good bit of water.
Best of luck!