Thank you all for your replies! I love gardening, but I am new to fig trees so sharing your expertise is greatly appreciated.
Here are some more pictures!
The tree is staying regardless of it's fruiting capacity - we love the shade and love the lush looking foliage it adds to our yard. However, if by grafting I can get some tasty fruit - then by all means I'll give that a shot. It's something I've always wanted to try, now I just have an excuse! If it really is a lost cause for the fruit, please let me know before I go hunting for scions.
Grafting Questions: Does it matter what gender the tree is for grafting, or is tree gender just a pollination issue? Also, are their resources for finding scions (we recently moved to the area so we don't know other fig tree owners yet)? The video above was great, do you recommend any other links about FAQ for fig grafting?
If the grafting doesn't work out, I'll go buy this guy a better fruiting friend.