OK, so I attempted a whip and tongue graft today. I have seen it done in person a few times, on YouTube several times, and in books. Mine didn't fit together like perfect puzzle pieces. I re-cut and spliced it again and got a little better result, but still pitiful looking. The cherimoya seems to have a nice meaty cambium layer. Even though my fit wasn't great, I could see that there was plenty of cambium to cambium contact. So, I wrapped it tightly with Buddy Tape and called it a day. I also set up my 10' x 10' pop-up canopy to shade the tree while it is mending.
As I mentioned in my first post, I already removed the lower 40% of leaves from each branch. I have no idea if that was the right thing to do. I have seen people cut leaves in half on newly grafted (or air layered) branches. What else do I do here?
By the way, I cannot find graft joints anywhere on these two trees. I am not sure, but I think I got them from Exotica in Vista. They propagate a lot of their own plants by air layer. So, they may not be grafted.
I outlined the branch structure and graft point since it is almost impossible to see in the naked picture.