Usually my in ground trees produce slightly smaller figs than the ones in pots. RdB for example has given me the same size but that is only 1 year to compare, although this year it looks like the same result. Dalmatie looks like it gives me bigger in ground than in pots, Niagara black will be slightly less than in pots. Water is definitely a factor for size for some varieties, in france they have shown in well irrigated orchards col de dama will gain considerable size compared to orchards that are less irrigated or not irrigated at all. This may not apply to all varieties though and I do not know which would affect it more or not but I am sure that the more you water in ground the larger the size. In the Okanagan valley of Canada, they irrigate the sweet cherries but in Ontario they don't irrigate the same amount, the Okanagan needs more water because of the climate and rainfall but the Okanagan gets a much larger size.
Another thing that can impact size is the pruning of a tree, a tree that has too many fruits or flowers will also give small fruits/flowers due to resources.
Fertilizer is another big one as Ascpete is saying, without proper nutrition, size and flavour will be compromised. Potassium helps improve quality and flavour in fruits as well as making sure the plant can transpire/respire properly and calcium is what is needed for proper cell development in the cell walls. If growing in a container you don't have adequate ammounts of these, you will run into problems, potassium and calcium compete and too much of one can lock the other out, although calcium tends to be harder for the plant to take up so in my opinion, erring on the safe side extra calcium would not hurt as much as too much potassium since potassium is more readily absorbed by a plant and in excess it can lock out calcium.
Climate and soil will also produce varying results, poor rocky soils produce better grapes than rich fertile soils, sandy soils produce better trees in citrus with poorer quality fruits.
For me, in ground trees produce better tasting figs, but I still get very tasty figs from the ones in pots, I have not put all the trees I have in pots in ground so I really cannot make an accurate statement to say they will always be better in ground, but so far it has proven true for me. I attribute this to several factors, after the first year I don't water except for the spring for in ground trees to get the moving, unless there is a good amount of rain, I don't add as much fertilizer, but rather mix the hole with pre plant fertilizer and sparingly add fertilizer to in ground trees. I have a sandy loam soil so it is not overly rich but it is no where near poor either and has excellent drainage. The las is my in ground trees tend to be planted at an older age so this also may be a factor in the taste as the tree is more mature.
My opinion may change this year as I changed my fertilizer and watering programme, I water less this year and build up the roots more with fiborous roots rather than watering all the time and having more water roots (I use a heavy soil mix). I think this will produce a better result than I have had before so this year I may end up with better, the same or worse results than in ground, but I believe that what I have changed for my situation, will produce better results than what I have had before and will find out soon.
So many factors in crop management can make results vary from area to area as much as climate does, although Paully has a great advantage to have a climate to grow in ground larger trees with much less effort than I do so I believe this makes much better figs for him than for me.