JoAnn,
Had our traditional breakfast with my wife and two sons 20 and almost 18). My wife made sauage gravy and homemade biscuits. She had a few fig preserves on her biscuit....about one more breakfast and that will be the end of figs. Opened our gifts and got ready to head to my wife's son's house for dinner.
We had a goose, honey baked ham, green bean caserol, mashed potatoes, gravy, homemade rolls, pecan pie, fresh strawberry cake and assorted cookies, etc.
Watch their son (almost 4) open the rest of his presents. A nice afternoon. On the way home, stopped at my mom's house. She is 91 and just had colon cancer surgery 3 weeks ago. She is doing well and even drove to her nephew's house for Christmas dinner (about 4 miles out here in the country).
Sorry to hear about your SO. This is not a good time of year to be ill. Keep the faith. I have been there with both illnesses and heartache. Keep your faith in God and He won't let you down. I know it is hard to see it now, but believe me, He hears our cries and understands our pain. This too shall pass.
Alan