Yes, they are tiny buggers, aren't they? And I would think once they are in a pot the tree is likely doomed as the roots are trapped.
I have them in NC. From what I've read, they don't like organic mixes (though nobody seems to know why), they stay near the surface as they need light (I've read no more than a foot or so deep). If planted in ground near a concrete slab the roots that grow under the slab may remain uninfected. One remedy from a man in FL was to plant the tree in a bottomless 5 gallon bucket with heavy mulching - the roots grow out of the pot below where the nematodes are, and the mulch is supposed to 'repel' them.
That said, mine are too young to know yet. I have 3 in a raised bed with heavy organic mix about 3 ft from my house - concrete slab. In their first year (last year) they grew like gangbusters. I planted others out in the yard using the bottomless bucket method, they did not grow nearly as well. There are many in my neighborhood in NC, and all the ones that do well are near 'structure' as the locals like to say.