I have no problem paying for anything I am looking to get, however, I love to trade. Even if it is a future marker of trade, or something owed either way. I often give things away and expect nothing in trade, I'm simply happy that someone else has use for it. I know I have a couple markers owned, and I'm exited for the day to come that I can fill them.
I also like to share with another local enthusiast, to the point that our collections are mirrors of one another. This ensures that if anything is ever lost, we know that we can get a replacement in the future from the mirror garden. I sometimes even have duplicates myself on top of sharing to ensure certain cultivars won't be lost.