I would like to apologize for the misunderstanding to Joe and the forum, as well. It is a good display of how things can be worked out. When folks talk to each other in person or phone, you can really see the other person's view. I learned more about Joe and he learned more about me. Sometimes when we are behind computers, misunderstandings happen, however, ( and not to bring up my dislike for technology) people have been working things out for hundreds of years in person, not on computers. Today, it is easier to make generalizations and see things one way when you're communicating more casually on a keyboard. I really like this forum, and I hope others will try to work things out person to person like Joe and I have before letting things escalate. I've avoided these things for over three years, but I learned from now on how to handle these things better. For those of you reading this thread, I hope you see how successfully drama can be squashed.