"someone is bashing me for something I don't have control over"
For heaven's sake, Dave.
1. I wasn't bashing you. I never even mentioned your name.
2. You very clearly DO have control over whether you offer combined shipping or not. As I've already shown you, it is very easy to cut down substantially on shipping costs when multiple plants are shipped together -- either in the same box, or in individual boxes that are taped together to make a single parcel.
3. As I've mentioned a couple of times already, I didn't even leave you negative or neutral feedback. I left you POSITIVE feedback where it counted most -- on ebay.
Please, get over this. You weren't attacked. Nobody would ever have known I was even referring to you, except that you CHOSE to jump in.