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To Rafed

Rafed,

In this fig growing hobby, I have learned a thing or two about true friends or the ones they call themselves, my friends. I have learned that, friendship is based on who you are, not what you have (rare variants) or you do.
Lost several dozens of my trees this Spring, never brought it up on the forum nor I even bothered to ask every friend that I had shared those lost variants with, for replacements. Only asked four friends to purchase rooted plants of those variants that I had lost. Two were Leon and Paul, both were eager to help me for nothing. Two other that I had shared cuttings or plants, were not intrested in helping by saying their plants were small or etc.... Didn't make sense when I had send them large, potted air layers and cuttings last Summer. Those were the ones were the ones being bubdy buddy when they wanted some rare plants that I had. I will not name them, but I tell you this- I have zero respect for those guys.

I have much respect for Leon and Paul for being true friends. And you Rafed. We got into it last Fall over a small misundrestanding, my question to you might not been clear or it might was represented wrongly by me. I appologize. We both end up exchanging some harsh words and ended oir friendship. Went by several months till just days ago where spoke on the phone. We both apologized to each other for our rather childish behavior during last Fall and etc.... Whitin seconds after you found out I had lost so many trees you offered to send me one plant. Two days passes by and I recieve a very large box from you. Was surprised seeing four large plants instead of one. I appericiate your kindness.

These are the variants that have not been introduced in our fig community. You could off made several hundreds of dollars from selling each on eBay. Rafed, you have the biggest heart. I appericiate it your help, even though I never asked. You said; this is what friend do, help each other when in need. Unfurtunatly not everyone is like you Rafed. I know many growers in US and other countries, but, you, Leon and Paul are what I call TRUE FRIENDS.

Best,
Navid.

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That is wonderful, Navid. Thank you for sharing. There are many good folks on here; and Rafed is one of the best.

Hey rafed... I lost all my trees..... Lol.. just kidding.

You're a stand up guy for helping those in need. I'm happy to be a part of this great community.

Navid,

One of my favorite forum experiences (and I've had many excellent ones) was when I won a Black Triana in one of Rafed's contests. We decided to put the tree up for auction to benefit the F4F Foundation. His generosity is inspirational. Three cheers!

That's awsom. Yes there are a lot of good folks on here. Unfortunatly there are to many people to take advantage too.

I think simple acts of selflessness like this, whether its towards a friend or a complete stranger is something we should all aspire to. Not just on this forum but also out there in real life.

Dave,

Sadly there have been occurrences where people try to take advantage of others. 

What really makes one experience pure hoy is seeing someone come over and get their fig tree and see the happiness in their faces. What even better is when they call and let you know how their trees are doing. 

There is no one out there with a bigger heart or brighter smile. I'm more than glad to proclaim Rafed as my friend. We can all learn from his generosity and unselfish attitude. 

Navid, thanks for posting this. It makes you a stand up guy also.

"gene"

Navid, very uplifting thread about a very uplifting person.

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You have spoken the truth, Navid.
Gene, you've said it very well, also.


No one has a bigger heart on this forum than Rafed. He will go WAY out of his way for you without ever asking anything in return. You only have to look at all he's done for Jon's fig foundation to see the type of person he is. I consider myself fortunate to be counted among his friends. Dozens if not hundreds of people here, I am sure, feel the same way.

Wow guys, and gals,

I'm speechless.

I'm just here helping one another like the many of you do. I am no different nor am I any better.
I love and enjoy being here with my extended family. And family look out for one another.

Navid,
It was nothing bro, as long as you are happy.
I have never met or been in contact with Leon but have heard many great things about him.
As for Paul, I know first hand how big hearted he is.

Gene,
What can I say? I have nothing but love for you and Linda. You are more than friends, you are family.

Frank,
You also belong with the greats. This topic can't go on without you being recognized.

There are many many great people here in this forum. Too many to name but to each of you, Thank you.

Let's hear it for all the good folks here. Hip-Hip-Hooray!!!!!!
"gene"

I'm so happy you guys are friends again. Very uplifting to share all this, thank you Navid . This is indeed a very,very special group of people . Warms your heart.

Navid nice thread for a group of genuine folks.

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Very glad to see the fences mended between you 2 fine gentlemen. Navid I do recall you shooting out a package to me with out my asking too. Rafed has done the same. Both of you are good guys and hopefully will remain friends forever

Barry,

I too recall you and Martin sending me stuff ( good stuff ) without my asking.
You two are genuine as well.

Navid
We haven't traded or such but I know your reputation as a great and stand up guy. I have traded with Rafed, Paul, and Leon all outstanding and generous guys. It's nice to have such great people building this community and hobby/addiction.

I know one think, no one is like Rafed.

If Rafed wants to be generous this way, pass it on....LOL.........Love the comments of Rafed and the others in this Community.....Being a photographer I love the photography of the Figs......Fig4Fun Community a Generous Group of Fig Lovers....

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Armando between Fresno/Bakersfield California

https://www.facebook.com/armando.hinojosa.75

rafed has been very generous forum member to me. it's no surprise so many in this forum feels the same way as i do regarding rafed. 

Navid, thanks for sharing this and being open about your experience, I have to agree that it is wonderful to see Rafed's selflessness and his willingness to share amongst the community, Rafed, I think you are a great example for us and one of the big reasons why this forum is such a great place

An online group hug. Nice.

Very nice story Navid.  I have to agree.  In addition to all the fig give aways that Rafed puts on for the benefit of the fig foundation, I bet he does a lot more that nobody knows about.    He is a great guy.  Loves his family and loves his plants  (not just Figs).   If it were not for Rafed and other generous members, I wouldn't have nearly the collection that I have.   Always went out of his way for me as well.  Difficult to repay his kindness, but he's not really into it for the $.   He taught me to respect the plants.

I can't wait to start paying it forward by sharing with other members.

Take care everyone.

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