For DK, they need the wasp to ripen. Pick them all off now. They are sucking energy off the tree that it could put to better use. For the violetta, take most or all but 1 off and let it try to ripen one. If you have a S or W window you could bring it in once temps get too low and have it finish the ripening, then let it go dormant, especially if you have lights to help. That's my opinion.