You CAN go wrong with 5:1:1 fish emulsion if you over-use - just like you can with any fertilizer, whether it's organic or synthetic. A perfect example would be when you use it in the spring and see nothing happen because nutrient availability depends on the activity of soil biota to break down molecules into elemental form. Soil biotic activity is suppressed by low temperatures so you dose again because you see nothing happen. Suddenly, when you have 2-3 doses in the soil and it turns warm, you get fertilizer burn or symptoms of ammonium toxicity.
Granted, it's more difficult to go wrong when your fertilizer is so low in nutrients AND it's slow release by virtue of the fact that it's an organic source of nutrients, but it's not foolproof. I just wanted you to be clear on that point.
Paully - if your plant is stalled and you've been fertilizing, you need to look to another reason for the problem. I really don't think the added P in the 4-12-4 would be helpful. First, the idea that P STIMULATES root growth is a myth. P is a nutrient, not a growth regulator; and can't do anything other than allow a plant to grow normally. That's the best you get - no matter what you do - normal growth. How well a plant CAN grow is in it's genetic code, and providing more of any one nutrient than a plant needs has no potential to benefit the plant - it can only LIMIT growth if supplied in excess. When you change things and you see a plant 'growing better' what you're really seeing is the plant responding to your ability to reduce the effects of the limiting factors it had been growing under all along, so the plant can thereafter grow at closer to its normal potential. The same things happens after you repot or pot up. You interpret the faster growth as a 'growth spurt', when actually what you're witnessing is the tree shaking off the constraints of tight roots and returning to closer to normal growth.
As growers, the very best we can do for our plants is get out of their way. By that, I mean our job is to reduce the effects of or eliminate entirely all the factors that have the potential to limit growth. That's it - that's what makes a good grower good and a poor grower a wannabe. ;-) Get good at eliminating the limiting factors, and you're on easy street. If a plant is laboring under a general deficiency of nutrients, waiting for it to get older before you decide to cure it doesn't really sound like the best plan when salvation is at hand today.
I'm off track, so back to your tree. Examine the basics. Is it in the right soil? Given where it is in the growth cycle and soil temps - should it be growing? Right light? How about nutrition? watering habits? Usually, most problems result directly or indirectly from a triangle formed by soil choice, watering habits, and the level of nutrients in the soil. These things are so closely related you can hardly discuss one w/o discussing the others. They're also often indirectly responsible for a host of other common issues, so that's what I'd examine first & make sure I'm on track in those areas. Most of your success when it comes to container culture hinges on soil choice.
Al