I also am on 'Zidi Watch'. My small yearling tree now has two fruits large and starting to color up. (There might have been more except for 'the trash can incident'.) Don't know if the wasp is here or not - it's in the county.
I think there is more variable with some of these figs actually ripening than just being pollinated by the wasp. If you read old threads, there are so many differing reports, opinions and observations. In addition to the wasp, I think basic climate, weather, perhaps photoperiod, and the like can be contributing factors. Figs are so complicated.