nycfig
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Great story. Thx for sharing. Gardens certainly do bring us together and smooth out rough days. My grown kids come over all the time. My son phoned just the other night. Dad, he says ,we are heading for the grocery store and wondered what's ready in your garden. So they come over and we get a short visit with him and his gf and our precious 2 month old granddaughter and send them on there way with cantaloupes, peppers, potatoes, tomatoes and some basil and tarragon from the herb garden. They where at the house for 30 minutes tops but it sure was nice to have everyone together for a nice little visit in the back yard. I'm hoping next summer I will actually have enough figs to share too.
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nycfig
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Thanks for adding your experience too, Steve. It's very easy to lose track sometimes, but nice to have something that brings us right back!
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To see children get involved with gardening is Priceless :)
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Seeing your son cut open and enjoy a fig (just like he has seen you do) is a great thing. Unfortunately, I didn't get back into gardening until my daughter was in the early teen years and by then it is too late - they have other interests and hanging out with Dad is not a big priority. She'll have to discover gardening on her own later as an adult.
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Always warms my heart to see happy children enjoying the fruits of their labor.
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nycfig
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Thanks Steve. I use to help my grandfather in the garden up until my teen years... then partied a bit much, but went back to gardening. That's probably why I love it so much. My grandfather on my father's side, from Sicily, grew vegetables and grapes and my grandfather on my mother's side (Bari, Italy) grew figs and grapes. My dad still breaks my chops that he wants me to grow grapes and gave me his father's wine press from back in the day. He remembers helping his father make wine and I remember the same. Maybe one day. My point is that kids remember a lot more than we think. Even though they're not involved they watch and it gets stored in the memory banks. Later on when they take up growing, they're making that connection back to us, just like I made the connection back to my grandparents, and so on. I am happy that my son enjoy's being in the garden with me, though.
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Hi, My figs have more magical powers. They walk themselves from the garden to the table for my daughter and mum to eat :) . I won't let her go to the trees as she would tare the whole trees down just to get one fig, and crush the surrounding tomato plants and pumpkin ... a true bulldozer and she's fit ! But, I have a game: it is the quiz. That's the reason why I have different strains. I put the harvest on the table and they have to guess which strain it is. The game was starting to be too some easy, so I added some new unknown figs ... LOL . I can't get it, how they didn't spot that... I'm the master of the rules :) . I still have some strains to taste, so the game will be even more fun, with more choices for the answers . I have one that came from a cutting from our holidays two years ago, and that one was fun too : Do you remember the camping ( ... what you did last summer ? bouhaha LOL)... Here, that is known as the "madeleine de Proust" effect. Memories get back to you later, just by tasting a cake (madeleine) or a passing-by smell ... I don't think that my daughter will ever be in gardening, she's more on the intellectual side ... more a city-rat, than a country-rat ! And buying land is a challenge in my neck of the woods. You should try some tomatoes if they like/eat them. They are fun too, and tastier than the ones you'll buy (as for the figs) .
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Originally Posted by jdsfrance Hi, My figs have more magical powers. They walk themselves from the garden to the table for my daughter and mum to eat :) . I won't let her go to the trees as she would tare the whole trees down just to get one fig, and crush the surrounding tomato plants and pumpkin ... a true bulldozer and she's fit ! But, I have a game: it is the quiz. That's the reason why I have different strains. I put the harvest on the table and they have to guess which strain it is. The game was starting to be too some easy, so I added some new unknown figs ... LOL . I can't get it, how they didn't spot that... I'm the master of the rules :) . I still have some strains to taste, so the game will be even more fun, with more choices for the answers . I have one that came from a cutting from our holidays two years ago, and that one was fun too : Do you remember the camping ( ... what you did last summer ? bouhaha LOL)... Here, that is known as the "madeleine de Proust" effect. Memories get back to you later, just by tasting a cake (madeleine) or a passing-by smell ... I don't think that my daughter will ever be in gardening, she's more on the intellectual side ... more a city-rat, than a country-rat ! And buying land is a challenge in my neck of the woods. You should try some tomatoes if they like/eat them. They are fun too, and tastier than the ones you'll buy (as for the figs) .
jds - Thanks for adding. Wonderful game that you play. My wife is getting better at recognizing different varieties too. Dom still takes stabs at the variety but he's getting better. He has unbelievable name, visual and spatial recognition. He gets it from my wife's side, LOL. Dominic is the person that meets you once and knows your name for life. He'll remember what you're wearing and where he met you. Almost like a magic trick. So when we're in the yard he'll say, "Dad, you got that fig from so and so and that one when we went to so and so's house." Wife and I laugh about it all the time because everyone in her family is the same way. Today, I think our kids have it better than us when it comes to gardening. There are so many options available to them today; bucket gardening and such, that if they wanted to pick it up in a city type setting, it would be pretty easy (science taking over tradition?). Everyone can find a way. My family immigrated to the Lower East Side of Manhattan and Pelham Bay in the Bronx. You can't get more city than that and they found a way. There are buildings in Manhattan and Brooklyn that still have ancient grape vines growing in back of them even today. It's almost haunting. Just started tomatoes again this year after a long lay-off. Use to grow them every year until city started spraying to kill mosquitos. Lived close to a city park and they sprayed the heck out of it several times. I was there the day they started spraying directly over my yard and covered my tomatoes. There must have been about 60 lbs of beautiful Roma's hanging and they were covered with poison. I went into the back and cut them all down at the base. Right into the trash! Very sad. Haven't grown tomatoes until this year. Traded a local grower a few figs for some Primo Red seeds and they're doing great!
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Originally Posted by sppsp Great magic in the Dominick fig tree! My daughter enjoys eating the figs. Gardening brings my family together too, my parents this year came over to visit several times and last couple of years my in-law parent came over, the garden has an amazing powerful connection for families.
So true Shaliesh. Gardening, farming, hunting, fishing, cooking, etc... All powerful family connectors. Maybe it's a need to share and pass along ideas for the basic necessities of life. Whatever it is, it's a great feeling! Thanks for adding!
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Great post, Danny. I hope things slow down enough for you to enjoy your surroundings a bit more. Enjoy those figs.
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That's awesome that the Dominick tree is the one with magic for you. I remember when Coop first introduced us all to it. I lost all of my figs save one tree over the winter, and I have to say that the ones I regretted the most were the ones that had a story. These shared joys certainly do bring people together. There is a magic in Figs! Enjoy! Jeff
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Danny – You gave me a little treasure today when you wrote this post. Thank you! Reading everyones comments just warmed my heart.
I haven’t experienced Dominick’s magical fig yet “maybe next year “, but I do also have a fig tree named as a magic fig tree by my friends and I believe it is.
When I was young, I remember when visiting my grandparents we always ended up in the garden. I learned about seed saving from grandma and that some of her plants were from seeds she brought from Georgia that she had been replanting for years.
I also remember the bags full of green beans us kids picked; then later we all sat around, with bags of beans snapping them so that mom could preserve them.
Steve – Ditto to your response. I laughed when I read it. I so enjoy those 30 minute visits from my grown daughter. She also called the other day asking if we were going to be home. She wanted to come over and pick some pears and plums. She hands over my 4 month old granddaughter when she arrived and we walked around the garden talking and gathering fruit, picking and eating cherry tomatoes in between. A few weeks previously it was figs and blackberries, sage and rosemary.
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Thank you to everyone for adding!
Frank - Yes. Definitely forcing myself to slow down a bit and enjoy the figs more. Thanks. :)
Jeff - Sorry you lost all of your figs. I can definitely spare some Dominick cuttings in the fall. I'm sure Coop can help too. Send me a message and let me know what else you're looking for, I'll try and help you out.
DesMoines - Great story! Glad you have those memories. Definitely making my own too. Thanks for posting your experience.
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Thank you for sharing, Danny. Dominic and that smile of his is just precious! One thing you might want to do, if you aren't already, is write stories like this down in a hard copy (paper) journal for when Dominic gets grown. With how fast the age of information is moving, vlogs, blogs and on-line programmes that we currently use may soon be obsolete, but hard bound journals will keep for generations if stored in a dry location.
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It's so great that you put the rat race aside for a while! Building family time into our lives is really tough.
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