For winter care, at least in your NJ area, they would have to spend the winter inside (house or greenhouse). The cold tolerance depends a lot on the type of citrus variety that you have. Some of the satsumas do have about the lowest cold tolerances of the orange type fruit. Down here they can stay out, and in ground, year round. The trifoliate rootstock would have to be treated the same way.
If you want trifoliate orange for rootstock, my best suggestion for your area would be to grow them from seed. That way your shipping cost would be low to grow something very common. They spout fairly easy and grow quickly in a sandy well draining soil.
CliffH