Ortegojeffry, in addition to my work in physics, I also study human learning. In particular I research differences in the ways that experts and novices learn new information. Experts tend to subconsciously perceive the underlying structure of new information even if that information is presented in an unorganized manner. Experts often have difficulty understanding the struggles of the novice because, to the expert, the information appears to be so well organized.
It's only natural that a new user of the forum would have a hard time searching through and mentally organizing SO much new information. It's also natural that an experienced forum member could get frustrated that the novice can't see what they see. It's what we call "the curse of knowledge."