genecolin
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Today my Mother pasted away at the age of 93. We all knew her time was short, but the call from my brother this morning still left me in shock. I was walking out of the house to go visit her when he called. Now she rest in eternal peace. As some of you have noticed, I haven't been too active on the forum lately. Well she was one of the reason, I didn't have the passion for life I usually have with her lying in bed not hardly knowing what was going on around her. Once I pass this grieving stage, perhaps I can get back into life with a good heart. She will be missed that's for sure, but her clocked has stopped an I can accept that, it will just take a little time to get myself together. "gene"
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FrozenJoe
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Gene,
So sorry for your loss.
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Gene I feel your pain brother. My Condolences.
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Mescalito
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Gene, we haven't talked for a while, and I'm sad to hear of your Mom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mike
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Gene, my condolences to you and yours. Dan
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Gene, our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through your loss and grieving. Mothers are special and on our minds always.
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Gene, Being new to the forum I know you don't me BUT I am sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Sara
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Gene,
We are sorry for your loss!
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Gene, our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Tim & Sherri
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Gene, hang in there brother. My father is 92 and I am going through a similar situation. My prayers are with you. Ed
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Peg919
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Gene, God Bless you in you time of grief. Peg Ct z6
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Gene,
I am so sorry for your loss, I can not imagine what you are feeling right now. Please know this, we are here for you and if there is anything we can do please do not hesitate to ask.
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So sorry for your loss! Thinking of you and your family.
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Sorry for your loss, brother. Lost my only brother at 12, grandmother and grandfathers at 19-21, almost lost my father 6 years ago.... Can't imagine losing my parents too.
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Gene, So sorry for your loss. Will be praying for your comfort in this time. Marty and Serena
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Gene, Sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. We are all here with you brother. Moma is in a better place now. Remember her on how she lived rather than on how she passed. I bet she's right there above you smiling at her little boy. Take care my dear friend.
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Gene May all the good memories of your mother left behind console you in the future.
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I've been there Gene. I know what you're going through. I will pray for you and your family. Praise Him!
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Sorry for your lose. I hope your loving memories of you mom will help you get through this difficult time. Tom
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genecolin
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To all my figs4fun friends, those I've met face to face, and those I've only met here on line, thanks for all the prayer, well wishes and condolences. Having friends like y'all only make this easier, as I know I don't carry all the burden. She has run the race and run it well, and God in his mercy allow her to go peacefully while she slept. Never did she suffer any pain or was a burden to any one of us. She was as common a person as you could ever meet and never met a stranger. When I told her I had discovered that she actually had relatives that were some of the first settlers that came to America and founded Jamestown she didn't quite understand. Then when I told her that she was related to the Queen of England and had royal blood in her veins she couldn't imagine that. She just thought of herself as a humble housewife and mother, but to me she is a Queen, the Queen of my world. I'm am nothing except for her. Once more, thanks to all, and thanks to God. "gene"
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"gene"
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go4broek
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Sounds like a terrific lady. You were fortunate to have her in your life. Wish I could say the same about my own. I am sorry and saddened for your loss. Peace be with you and yours.
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Hi, Gene! I'm very sorry..This is a very hard for us to let go the one we love the most... The only cure I know.. keep yourself busy as much as you can... Sge always will be here with you..You love her too much... Be strong...
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Sorry to hear this loss Gene. May the lord be with you at this time. Paul
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Gene, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Even when we know it's coming, like with your mother and my sister, it's still terrobly painful and leaves you feeling so empty. There's nothing like the loss of a mother. Our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and yours, V
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Gene,Sorry about the loss of your mother.
My condolences to you and the rest of your family.
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Gene, My condolences to you and your family.
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will
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Gene my thoughts and prayers are with in your time of need!! I just lost my uncle sonny on sunday night to a massive heart attack I feel your pain brother!! I can tell you one thing for sure they are both in a better place now and we will sooner or later be able to reunite with them at some point in the future. Sorry to hear the news and god bless you and your family.
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Hi Gene: My condolences to you and Family
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Gene she sounds like a wonderful woman.She is at perfect peace now, though, and
we will all join her sometime. My sincere
condolences to you and yours.
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Gene, I'm very sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother. The fact that she 'never met a stranger' reminds me of my mom who passed just a couple years ago. It's one of those things you know is coming eventually but that certainly doesn't make it any easier when the time does come. From my heart, you have my most sincere condolences Gene.
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Gene,A prayer, a smile, and as much peace as possible to you and your family. JD
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noss
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Hello Will, I'm sorry you lost your Uncle Sonny last evening. God bless you and yours at this sad time. My sister, Mary Lou, died on the 6th of May and I'm still reeling from her loss even though it wasn't really unexpected. I'm sharing cyber-hugs with you and Gene and keeping both of you in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Love, noss
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genecolin
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Once again thanks for the prayers and thoughts. It's so nice to be among friends. Will, I grieve with you, sorry to hear about your uncle. Blessings to all, "gene"
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"gene"
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will
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Thanks for the love Gene and Noss it means alot to me God bless you guys!!!! Uncle Sonny was a hardcore italian to the bone and LOVED his figs we pounded down a couple trays of figs together this past summer!!!! I'll miss him but I'm comforted by the fact that he is in a better place now!!!! Once again thanks for the kind words guys!!!!
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Gene, My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom. It's very hard to lose a beloved parent. Lots of hugs coming your way. Will, condolences on the loss of Uncle Sonny too. It sounds like you had a special relationship with him and his figs.
Good memories will always be with you both. Sue
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will
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thank you Sue that was sweet of you!
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Gene and Will, so sorry for your loss, loosing a loved one is terribly heartbreaking...you are in our prayers
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I express deeply sympathize with your loss! From China's friend
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